Do You Have a Hard Time Showing Love? You Are Not Alone.

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4 min readMar 14, 2024

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We all know the importance of showing appreciation to loved ones, but sometimes expressing our feelings can be difficult, especially for those who struggle with outward displays of affection. This can be especially true with siblings, where playful teasing can sometimes cross the line into hurtful behavior.

In my case, I recognized that my past arguments with my sister, even if unintentional, caused her emotional pain. This pain still hurts her to this day, and I don’t know how to tell her how sorry I am, even though it was several years ago.

Gift-giving has always been my way of showing care, but I understand it doesn’t erase the past. I desired to rebuild the bond with my younger sister, but I didn’t know what to buy her. I wanted to buy something personalized, but simple, and related to my sister. However, I could not find anything related to that on the internet. I searched for hours and hours but did not find anything that satisfied my needs.

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Flowers? No, it Is too impersonal. Clothes? Nah, she has plenty of them. Me and my team members decided to put our heads together and created White Iris Eternal.

An Etsy shop that offers a wide range of different birthday cards. We all have different reasons that led us to create our business while having the same goal: Making people feel special, and something that screams “I see you”.

At white Iris Eternal, we believe the magic lies in the details. We design beautiful, unique products that tell a story. Imagine a gift that reflects their unique personality, not just another generic item collecting dust.

Our secret? We use the Enneagram, a powerful system that identifies nine personality types. By understanding your recipient’s type, we curate the ideal present — one that speaks directly to their interests and passions.

We decided to craft a free personality type quiz that will directly show what your personality type is.

The quiz that reveals your personality type: https://ke5vd10zdq8.typeform.com/to/AGu8SRKq

Today, I want to show my lovely readers five of my favorite Enneagram cards❤

  1. Galaxy themes birthday card

They’re the achievers, the go-getters, the one who always crushes their goals. This birthday, ditch the generic gift and give them something that truly speaks to their drive:

The Enneagram 3 Birthday Card: “Made to Shine.”

This isn’t your average greeting card. It’s a celebration of their ambition, their relentless pursuit of success, and the light they bring to the world.

Here’s why it’s perfect:

  • Designed with the Enneagram 3 in mind: Bold colors, a motivational message, and a touch of humor — it speaks their language.
  • Instant download, printable at home: No last-minute shopping stress. Get it, print it, conquer the birthday!
  • Personalized touch: Write a heartfelt message on the inside, and watch their face light up.

2. Playlist birthday card

It’s colorful, bright, musical, and everything that fits an enthusiastic individual. Someone like the Enneagram type 7.

Furthermore, Music has always been a mechanism that impacts emotions and moods.

Enneagram type 7, also known as the Enthusiast, is all about joy, optimism, and seeking new experiences. They’re the life of the party, driven by a desire to feel good and avoid boredom. They crave new experiences, challenges, and anything that keeps them stimulated.

3. 9-pack Enneagram cards

High-end cards with a touch of raw aesthetic are not so common in our local warehouses. Therefore, this card can be personalized to be given to any personality type. They are also:

  • Eco-friendly: A digital card eliminates waste and reduces your carbon footprint. Meaning, that the cards only get produced when an order gets set, which minimizes waste.
  • Budget-friendly: It’s a thoughtful and affordable way to show you care.

4. birthday card for enneagram 6-Waves

The Enneagram 6, also known as the Loyalist, is all about security, trust, and finding their tribe. They’re dependable friends, loyal companions, and always there for the people they care about.

But here’s the thing — they can also be indecisive, worry a lot, and sometimes overthink things. Remind them to take it easy and go with a flow-like a wave.

5. 9-pack enneagram birthday cards

I know that the lunar new year has passed for this year, but I just love these cards! They are not only made to fit a certain enneagram type but also for a holiday. So cute!

Don’t just say happy birthday, say it with understanding! White Iris Eternals’ Enneagram cards are the perfect way to celebrate the special someone in your life. Show them you truly see them by acknowledging their unique personality.

Love, T❤

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